Dementia care, also called memory care, is a unique senior care services niche. While it may encompass many of the same tenets of senior care—such as companion services, meal preparation, medication reminders, or transportation services—dementia care is specific to seniors experiencing Alzheimer’s, dementia, and progressive memory loss. Dementia care providers are specifically educated and trained in slowing down the progression of dementia-related conditions, as well as helping clients and their families celebrate life and find purpose in each day. Their approach is rooted in research-driven information and recommendations.  Memory Care Offers Personalized Support While dementia care provides customized care for... Read More »

The Memory Center works closely with spouses and families to transition their loved ones into our memory care community. It is not always an easy transition but we are committed to providing the extra level of care to make it as smooth as possible. One of the ways you as a caregiver can mentally, emotionally, and physically prepare for this giant leap is by creating a memory box together with our soon-to-be or new resident. Memory boxes are small enough to be held comfortably in the lap but large enough to store photos, special clippings, and other mementos with a... Read More »

There was a time when researchers believed brains were more like concrete than elastic. That has changed as the result of enhanced brain imaging, proving an active brain is a healthier brain. Thus, it’s important to prioritize cognitive exercises and memory games for seniors with dementia.  Games and activities that promote an active brain always yield positive benefits. While studies on Alzheimer’s games and their effects are inconclusive, researchers have proven mentally stimulating activities are linked to lower-risk or the delay of age-related memory loss – including Alzheimer’s. Keep reading for some game ideas for seniors with dementia. Crossword Puzzles... Read More »

A dementia diagnosis is typically the end result of a progressive series of signs that started months or even years before the screening appointment. More often than not, early “red flags” were present, but family members assumed they were normal or were too afraid to address them head-on. Because dementia is a progressive disease that intensifies over time, early diagnosis and treatment are essential. The sooner you know a loved one has dementia, the sooner you can make the necessary lifestyle changes to slow down its progression and begin making a long-term memory plan that includes your spouse or parent’s... Read More »

Not all memory loss is created equal. There is a distinct physiological difference between age-related memory loss and dementia. Knowing the difference can help you remain calm when normal forgetfulness makes you fear the worst. That said, ignoring clear signs of dementia means your loved one isn’t getting the help and support they need to slow down the disease’s progression and begin creating a long-term care plan. Keep reading to learn more about recognizing the differences between age-related memory loss vs. dementia and what to do about it. Memory Loss: Age-Related or Dementia? All of us have moments where our... Read More »

Every caregiver is at risk for burnout. However, those caring for loved ones with dementia are particularly susceptible. Most of the time, dementia caregiver burnout is a slow progression, easily missed in real-time. Without adequate support and dedication to a self-care routine, it’s not uncommon for caregivers to experience serious illness, physical decline, or injuries or to become overwhelmed by depression and feelings of hopelessness. If you take care of someone with dementia, make sure to prioritize self-care, stress management, and your mental and emotional wellbeing. Keep reading to learn about dementia caregiver burnout. Signs of Caregiver Fatigue Leading to... Read More »

Every long-term care plan should consider how to pay for dementia care. The Alzheimer’s Association cites that one-in-nine people over the age of 65 live with dementia, and that figure increases to two-in-ten by ages 71-79. So, planning to pay for memory care is a wise move, and there are plenty of creative ways to go about it. There are several things that support dementia care planning: Have a long-term care plan in place before you need it or as soon as you find out you have a progressive/terminal prognosis Early diagnosis Meet with a financial advisor before retirement to... Read More »

Getting an official diagnosis that memory lapses are the result of Alzheimer’s or dementia is life-altering. If you or your loved one still function “normally” in day-to-day life, it can be tempting to go into denial and pretend as if everything’s just fine until there are more obvious or alarming signs that compromise the quality of life. The truth is, however, that fast-action is the key to creating both short- and long-term care plans. There is still no cure for Alzheimer’s, and it is considered a progressive disease. The rate at which it progresses varies for each person, but it... Read More »

Sometimes you have to turn the tables, shift your perspective and look at things from a different angle in order to find the right answer. This is certainly the case when it’s time to search for the right type of memory care for yourself – or a loved one. Life changes drastically when it’s time to plan for memory care. Remember: while this may feel like a sacrifice of autonomy and “normal” life, the right memory care community reclaims these things in a new way. Click here to access the checklist now Asking the Right Questions Leads to the Right... Read More »

Medicine’s understanding of Alzheimer’s, and its effects on the human brain, is still in the pioneering phases. While we learn more all the time about how genetics, life events, and lifestyle components are involved in catalyzing the initial signs and progression of Alzheimer’s, the cure remains elusive. With respect to the ever-emerging science pertaining to the causes, treatments, and potential for Alzheimer’s disease, we update our Alzheimer’s Disease Fact Sheet regularly to reflect the current research. Accurate Facts, Figures, & Stats Improve Alzheimer’s Quality of Life The more you remain up to date on the current research and studies’ findings,... Read More »

The Memory Center COVID-19 Prevention Efforts – Updated March 19, 2020 Since the virus was first reported, The Memory Center has been very proactive in monitoring the situation via news reports from the Virginia Department of Health, the Georgia Department of Community Health, the Center for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC), other health agencies and our Medical Directors.   We are continually evaluating our policies and protocols and taking extra precautions to protect our residents and staff.  We are committed to helping you stay informed about the Coronavirus (COVID-19) and are working to ensure that we are prepared.  The well-being of... Read More »

The Memory Center Virginia Beach is looking to add energetic and dedicated team members! Positions available include: LPNs, Certified Nursing Assistants, Registered Medication Aids and Housekeeping. Join us Friday, February 7, 2020 to learn more about The Memory Center. Same day interviews will be available. Click the image to download a flyer and learn more. Read More »

Deciding when to move a loved one from home-based care to a memory care center is a difficult topic. In most cases, spouses and families opt to wait until their loved one is in the middle- to later-stages of memory care in order to keep them at home – in a familiar space – as long as possible. While these intentions are sound, the reality is that those with dementia and Alzheimer’s seem to experience longer, higher-quality lives when they are moved to a memory care center sooner rather than later. Moving Into Memory Care Sooner Offers Higher Quality of... Read More »

Financing a residency at a memory care center or assisted living facility can seem overwhelming at first.  If that’s the case for you, know that most residents and their families take a multi-faceted approach to finance long-term care for loved ones with Alzheimer’s or dementia. Many people ask if funding from Medicare or Medicaid is an option, but the answer can be complicated. In the case of Medicare, these are some funding allotments are available intermittently, but only covering specific medical events or situations. For this reason, Medicare is not usually viewed as a consistent or foundational source of funding... Read More »

There is no mystery around the fact that covering costs associated with assisted living and memory care facilities requires astute financial planning. The sooner you begin planning for these costs, the better. Read, How To Find Affordable Memory Care & Assisted Living, for more information on assessing the total costs (first-time and long-term) of your prospective location(s). Understanding Deposits For Memory Care One of the most immediate payments you’ll make is the deposit fee for the memory care center you’ve selected. These fees exist for a variety of reasons. First, and foremost, they indicate an expression of more serious intention... Read More »

The first priority in locating quality memory care or assisted living options is finding a place that you trust and that is known for its high-quality care. The second priority is finding a place you can afford. Factors To Evaluate When Searching For Affordable Memory Care It’s important to perform thorough due-diligence when comparing the costs of various memory care and assisted living facilities. Unfortunately, many facilities hide “extra costs” when advertising their per/month rates, and that can become detrimental if your loved one has moved in and you find the monthly charge is notably more than you estimated. Moving... Read More »

Life and relationships can get complicated quickly when a parent or senior loved one is afraid to tour assisted living facilities. It can weigh heavily on you and other family members when an aging parent is outright opposed to discussing the opportunity and/or touring an assisted living or memory care facility. However, that resistance shouldn’t hold you back from taking steps in the right direction. How To Ease Loved One’s Fears About Assisted Living & Memory Care The opposition to entertain the idea, even tour a facility, is common, but there are things you can do to help ease their... Read More »

Visiting assisted living facilities or memory care facilities is a must as you determine where your loved one feels comfortable and offers what s/he wants and needs. Even if the first one you visit feels like “The One,” having other facilities to weigh it against is extremely important. Plus, we guarantee your experiences at each community will teach you something, or shed light on an unfamiliar idea you didn’t know before. This well-rounded base of information will be fruitful as your loved one begins the transition into their new community.  Should We Visit Several Facilities? Ideally, you would visit around... Read More »

Transitioning a senior loved one into memory care requires a delicate choreography and balance as you determine the “best way” to move into the new place, decide what should go and what should remain behind, and even how often you should wait – or not – before visiting. Let Your Loved One & Memory Care Staff Lead The Way In most cases, your loved one’s level of comfort or agitation will determine how soon or how often you should visit. Also, trained memory center staff have wonderful insight into whether your presence seems to soothe or unsettle their new resident,... Read More »

For some seniors, transitioning into assisted living or a memory care center is relatively smooth and even a welcome one as they enjoy the renewed ability to engage with the world around them. Other times, the transition is very painful and much more challenging. As a family member – particularly a primary caregiver – watching a loved one struggle emotionally as they resist their new change, beg to be taken home, or react dramatically when you leave is absolutely devastating. Often this can mean going through the emotional trauma of a crying or wailing loved one as you pry yourself... Read More »

Moving a parent or senior loved one with dementia into an assisted living or memory care community is a major transition. It’s an emotional journey and there are bound to be upsets and logistical challenges along the way. Understanding How To Move A Parent With Dementia To Assisted Living Having a go-to list of tips and suggestions can help you and your family better prepare to move a parent with dementia to assisted living while ensuring s/he receives impeccable care. Start A Conversation Early (depending on the stage of memory loss) If possible, begin making the long-term care plan as... Read More »

No matter how much a memory care center does to create a warm, homey and comfortable ambiance – it isn’t possible to satisfy the personal tastes of every resident who call the community “home.” At The Memory Center (TMC), we’ve developed a Town Center experience for the overarching design, using iconic stimuli from the past and including amenities such as a movie theater, pub, hair salon, general store, and more. Our common spaces are filled with natural light and style and our landscapes are beautifully designed.  We also recognize residents and their families want spaces to feel like home and... Read More »

What Makes The Memory Center Different? Choosing the right memory care community is essential to your loved one’s well-being, as well as the well-being of your family. You want to select a place that is as dedicated to your loved one’s mental and physical well-being, as much as to their emotional comfort and security. This is where The Memory Center excels. We also recommend reading, How to Compare Assisted Living Communities, which outlines features, benefits and care specific to memory care. Memory Care Dedicated to Physical, Mental and Emotional Well-Being of Residents The Memory Center is primarily established to support... Read More »

As a caregiver, you invested countless hours meeting your loved one’s needs. Now that your season of caregiving has ended, you may feel uncertain about what to do next. 12 Tips For Adjusting To Life After Being A Caregiver Consider these tips that help you care for yourself and manage your time. 1. Give yourself permission and time to grieve After any loss, you will need time to grieve. The commonly held stages of grief include:    Denial, disbelief, confusion, shock, and/or isolation    Anger    Bargaining    Despair and/or depression    Acceptance    Instead of hiding or feeling ashamed or guilty, give yourself permission to... Read More »

An Alzheimer’s or dementia diagnosis is life changing, and it is also a call-to-action. The sooner you can breathe through the initial shock and adjustment period, the better able you’ll be to create a long-term care plan that involves the input, opinions, and preferences of your loved one. Quick action also optimizes the time available to research and learn more about the Alzheimer’s journey before it progresses to mid- or later-stages. This gives you a more spacious ability to explore local options for the following: Adult day care Home care Memory care It also enables you to thoughtfully develop and... Read More »

The Memory Center Virginia Beach is pleased to welcome Tracy Amet as our new Admissions and Marketing Director. Tracy joins The Memory Center Virginia Beach team with several years of marketing and sales experience, most recently in the international education industry. Tracy loves to meet and establish relationships with new people, and her outgoing personality helps to make our residents and their families feel cared for and welcomed. She is a mother to three sons who keep her young and active and when she isn’t busy with her boys, she enjoys running, reading, and volunteering at her sons’ school.  We... Read More »

Dementia is any condition that includes degeneration of the brain tissue. It can impair neurological functions such as reasoning, memory and communication. The symptoms of dementia also include emotional characteristics such as behavior, mood and personality. Each case of dementia is unique due to the brain’s complexity, especially its condition. Most people consider dementia to be the inflection of old age as it generally becomes more likely as we get older. However, a significant number of dementia patients are also younger. Young onset dementia (YOD) is any type of dementia that affects someone under 65 years of age. The significance... Read More »

“There’s no place like home…” is certainly true. This can feel especially poignant for those with Alzheimer’s, who are reluctant to leave a beloved spouse, pets, and the familiar comforts of home. It’s also true that as Alzheimer’s and dementia-related conditions progress, it becomes increasingly difficult to keep a loved one well cared for, even with full-time home care in place. Differences in Alzheimer’s In-Home Care and Memory Care Facility There is no single answer to this question because every situation is different. However, we can shed some light on the differences between the two. Patients with mid- to late-stage... Read More »

Imagine a small town center, one where everyone knows each other, where people smile, stop and chat for a while and where anyone who needs assistance is offered it by store personnel, food servers or passersby. This is the type of town we wish existed for everyone with dementia  – a place where individuals have as much autonomy as he or she wishes, but where families never have to worry about their loved one getting lost, being scared without comfort or not having the type of care he or she needs on a daily basis. Well, guess what? That town... Read More »

When something acute happens, like a traumatic car accident or terminal illness diagnosis, the natural reaction is to jump into action making plans. On the other hand, age-related cognitive decline such as Alzheimer’s disease and dementia don’t always cause such immediate impact. Rather, signs and symptoms unfold over a period of time, making it difficult to know when memory care is truly needed. There are also the psychological and emotional impacts of dementia-related conditions on a person’s spouse, loved ones and family. Denial, emotionally driven conversations and the thought that caregiving can’t be that difficult, all add to the challenge... Read More »

  Finding out a loved one has Alzheimer’s or another form of dementia is scary.  One of the first questions people ask is if there is a cure or a way to recover.   Alzheimer’s and Medications While certain medications can help slow the progression for a time, there is no cure for Alzheimer’s or dementia. Alzheimer’s disease leads to cell death and tissue loss in the brain which ultimately affects memory, behavior, bodily functions or other systems.  It is a progressive disease that eventually leaves the person unable to safely care for themselves. Alzheimer’s Treatments While there is no... Read More »

The diagnosis of Lewy Body Dementia (LBD) is life changing. After the initial shock and grief wear off, it is critical that a long-term care plan is created and put in place as soon as possible. The quality of life for both the patient, as well as loved ones and other caregivers, is directly impacted by implementing a thoughtful care plan that accommodates for the range of changes and needs that evolve over time. There is much you can do to provide high-quality care for someone with LBD. Educating yourself, securing support and making lifestyle changes to slow progression are... Read More »

Millions of Americans are living with Alzheimer’s or other forms of dementia, and as more of the population reaches age 65 and above, instances of the disease continue to rise. Alzheimer’s is a progressive disease that causes memory loss and behavioral changes eventually leaving the person unable to safely care for themselves.  In the early stages many spouses and family members prefer to care for their loved one at home, but as the demands of the disease increase residential often becomes necessary. Family members want the best for their loved one and comparing assisted living facilities is a big task. ... Read More »

When someone has Alzheimer’s the world no longer makes sense to them the way it used to. They come to rely on their primary caregiver, often a spouse, as the person who keeps them safe and guides them through their every day. It isn’t uncommon for someone with memory loss to become anxious when they can’t see their caregiver spouse.  They may be afraid of what might happen if you aren’t there to help them, or even afraid you will leave them. This fear often leads to what is referred to as shadowing – meaning they become your shadow trying... Read More »

Talking to a loved one about the need to transition into memory care is the definition of a “courageous conversation.” It brings up a myriad of emotions, including fear, sadness, grief, shifts in power dynamics, feelings of powerlessness, and the frustration that comes along with the everyday ins-and-outs of living with Alzheimer’s and other forms of dementia. Speaking Compassionately & Effectively About the Need for Memory Care After decades of providing compassionate, stimulating, and research-based memory care, we’ve learned a thing or two about how to talk to individuals about this very necessary and life-enhancing transition.  The following are some of... Read More »

Alzheimer’s disease progressively destroys brain cells over time, so during the early stages of dementia, many do recognize something is wrong, but not everyone is aware. They may know they are supposed to recognize you, but they can’t. Maybe during a recent visit to your aunt’s house she insisted you help her find her winter gloves and boots – in the middle of July. Maybe she didn’t remember your name at all or thought you were someone else from the family. These types of scenarios aren’t uncommon, and many people wonder if their loved one knows something is wrong with... Read More »

When seniors are no longer able to live safely and independently at home, spouses, children and/or caregivers often look towards assisted living communities. However, while these facilities are wonderful at providing escalating care for the general senior population, assisted living communities are not the same as memory care. While they may have an exclusive memory care wing or unit- memory care is not their exclusive niche. This can unintentionally result in lesser-quality care for seniors with Alzheimer’s and dementia. When is it time to transition from assisted living to memory care? So, the question becomes, when should one consider transitioning to... Read More »

The Memory Center, Virginia Beach was recently named a 2018 Best Senior Living Award Winner by SeniorLiving.com. The award recognizes senior living and home care providers offering the best care and ratings from residents and their families.  According to SeniorLiving.com the award award places winners in the top one percent of senior care providers across the U.S. and Canada. Thank you to everyone who voted for The Memory Center.  We are honored to achieve this honor and look forward to providing the best care for those living with Alzheimer’s and other forms of dementia.      Read More »

The Memory Center has expanded and built a new community in Johns Creek, GA.  Our location opened in the Fall of 2017. Our Atlanta community will feature our unique Town Center design to promote a variety of independent, daily experiences.  Filled with natural light, each Town Center includes plenty of spaces to gather and iconic stimuli from the past. Maintaining a Sense of Home   To maintain a sense of home our Johns Creek design also features neighborhoods that surround our Town Center.   Each neighborhood has its own quiet and relaxing living room, small dining room, and full kitchen. ... Read More »

The holidays can be challenging, especially when caring for a loved one with Alzheimer’s or other form of Dementia.  Let us help ease the stress and join us for a special event.  Hear from The Alzheimer’s Association and learn effective holiday tips, which will include creating a safe, stress free environment, along with individual and family preparation supporting you and your loved one. As a caregiver, we understand getting away can be difficult, so your loved one is  welcome to join. You can even  creating memorable moment with the opportunity to design your own personalized holiday ornament. attend and participate.... Read More »

In most cases dementia is a condition that develops gradually making it easy to miss, or misunderstand, signs and symptoms – especially in the early stages. By the time you notice a family member or loved one demonstrating memory loss, confusion, agitation, personality changes, and other dementia-related symptoms it is often a sign you will eventually need to alter their living situation to accommodate these, and future, changes. As Alzheimer’s and dementia impact more of the brain there may be a point where the individual simply can’t live on their own.  Some families consider a move assisted living, which can... Read More »

Alzheimer’s and dementia will affect everyone at some point.  Whether it is a friend, neighbor, parent, loved one or you work with as a caregiver – someone you know, love or care for will be impacted. These Are the Facts and Figures About Alzheimer’s Even though the statistics are scary it is important to stay informed.  The more you know about Alzheimer’s and dementia the more you can recognize early warning signs, separate Alzheimer’s facts from myths, or learn how to handle the emotional diagnosis of a loved one. Here’s a Great Infographic from the Alzheimer’s Association How Many Americans... Read More »

Caring for a spouse or family member with Alzheimer’s has many challenges.  Keeping them safe, bathed and well fed can be difficult, but finding ways to keep your loved one busy and engaged during the day can be just as difficult. My Spouse Doesn’t Want To Do Anything In the early stages of Alzheimer’s family members may notice their loved one withdrawing from activities they used to enjoy. It is important to realize that people with memory loss often do have the desire to participate but can become withdrawn.  They may no longer be able to perform the activity on... Read More »

The beginning stages of dementia, Alzheimer’s, and other age-related memory issues can seem negligible – a forgotten appointment, not remembering a face or name, an error in a favorite recipe, etc. Over time, the cumulative effects of these diseases may require outside assistance. For many, this assistance comes by way of a spouse or family caregiver. When a memory disease progresses further, additional help is often required. It’s so important to begin memory-focused caregiving as soon as possible. Scientists and doctors on the forefront of dementia and Alzheimer’s disease overwhelmingly agree proper care and treatment at the early stages of... Read More »

Millions of Americans are living with Alzheimer’s or other forms of dementia. As more of the population reaches age 65 and above, instances of the disease continue to rise. Alzheimer’s is a progressive disease that causes memory loss and behavioral changes that eventually leaves the person unable to safely care for themselves.  In the early stages of the disease many spouses and family members prefer to care for their loved one at home, but as the demands of the disease increase often residential care will become necessary. While family members want the best for their loved one, the cost of care... Read More »

As more of the population grows older, the need for residential care, including both Memory Care and Assisted Living Care, outside the home continues to increase.  But figuring out what type of elderly care is right for you, or your loved one is difficult.  Knowing the differences between types of care, specifically assisted living and memory care, will help you choose the best option for your family. Memory Care Vs. Assisted  Living What is Assisted Living? Assisted living is typically designed for seniors who maintain a level of independence but may need day-to-day assistance with bathing, dressing, cooking or managing... Read More »

Taking care of your kids at home while caring for an elderly parent?  You’re a member of The Sandwich Generation, although the name sounds more appetizing than the scenario. Adults in The Sandwich generation have children at home – or older kids maybe fresh out of the nest but still requiring support – and they also have an elderly parent who with increasing care needs. It’s a daunting and exhausting place to be – and we haven’t even mentioned the full-time workload you’re probably carrying. We’re here to provide support. 7 Tips to Ease the Burden of Raising Kids While... Read More »

Caring for a loved or family member with Alzheimer’s or dementia can be difficult.  Connecting with others in the same situation can be beneficial to learn from each other, get questions answered and find out about new resources. The Memory Center, Atlanta is pleased to announce a new Alzheimer’s and Dementia Partner Support group coordinated by Certified Facilitator – Carol Mullen with Compassus. This group will meet at The Memory Center, Atlanta the first Wednesday of every month from 6pm-7pm. Everyone is welcome, and there is no charge for the event.  To reserve your spot call (678) 607-9679 or email... Read More »

The Memory Center, Atlanta construction is nearly complete and will be opening our doors to our first residents very soon.     Contact us for a tour of The Memory Center, Atlanta behind Emory Johns Creek hospital.  Our newest community will be the most comprehensive facility specializing in the care of those living with Alzheimer’s and dementia in the Atlanta area.  Get More Information or Schedule A Tour                   Read More »

Research has proven the human touch is powerful, and it holds true even when someone is living with Alzheimer’s disease or dementia. In fact, a simple hug or touch on the arm can calm someone with memory loss by decreasing stress, anxiety and promoting relaxation. We see this at The Memory Center communities every day. As the disease progresses, some people will want to be touched more and more such as wanting to hold your hand, having their arm rubbed or giving hugs.  Even though the individual may not remember day-to-day details, that doesn’t mean they forget emotions and the... Read More »

The Memory Center, Atlanta invites you to a special informational seminar on Sunday, May 21st from 1pm-3pm.  Learn more about what Memory Care means,  determining the right time to moved your loved one, what to look for in a community, pricing information, caregiver tips and more.  The Memory Center, Atlanta is opening soon and will be area’s most comprehensive community dedicated exclusively to those living with Alzheimer’s and other forms of dementia. Located in Johns Creek next to City Hall and Emory Johns Creek Hospital at 12050 Findley Rd our community is comprised of 48 residential suites designed and constructed... Read More »

Alzheimer’s disease can be difficult for children, teens, children even adults to understand. There will be times you grandma doesn’t seem like she used to. Or without warning she may get confused, agitated or even angry to the point of accusing you of stealing. And it may happen when you are out in public, at church, the grocery store, or at a family gathering.  Even though you know Alzheimer’s is the cause, it is common to be embarrassed about it.  While you can’t stop behavior changes due to Alzheimer’s, there are tips to help you better manage the situation. Think... Read More »

Alzheimer’s disease is typically referred to in three stages. Early, middle and late stage.  Many people are familiar with the early (or mild) and the late (or severe) stages, but not sure what to expect from the middle stage.  Moderate, or middle stage, Alzheimer’s is generally the longest stage of the disease with some living in the stage for several years. As the disease progresses family members and caregivers may notice behaviors such as: Needing assistance performing daily tasks such as bathing or dressing Difficulty following a conversation or remembering details about what day it is or their family history... Read More »

If you have a spouse or family member diagnosed with Alzheimer’s or dementia you are probably wondering  how long they will be able to live at home and how much help they will need. Alzheimer’s disease can progress slowly and during the early to mid-stages of the disease living at home with help is possible.  Even so, many caregivers find it necessary to enlist family members, nurses or home health-care aids to help.  Not only so their loved one can remain at home longer but also give the caregiver routine breaks to rest, exercise or catch up with friends. As... Read More »

Sleep problems aren’t uncommon in the senior population, but for those living with Alzheimer’s and dementia   sleep changes including insomnia or late-night restlessness are more common.   As Alzheimer’s progresses, it can cause the individual’s circadian rhythm to get off-kilter, reversing or rotating the body’s natural sleep/wake cycles.  Then, there is the lack of physical exercise, or other health issues which can result in a body that can’t seem to ever get a good night’s sleep.  As a caregiver, coping with an Alzheimer’s sleep problems can be taxing.  Nighttime is often a trigger for  sundowning which can lead to agitated... Read More »

Caring for someone with Alzheimer’s or other form of dementia is challenging, and caring for a spouse or family member add the emotions of seeing a loved one in a state of decline. While there are no easy answers or fool-proof way to get through a day as a caregiver without any frustration, there are practical tips that can help you prepare for common challenges. Handling Alzheimer’s Frustration & Agitation Agitation is common in people living with Alzheimer’s and dementia.  It can be caused by boredom, new situations, fear stemming from trying to make sense of a world they no... Read More »

The costs associated with caring for someone with Alzheimer’s or dementia can be surprisingly high. That can ring alarm bells when you begin seeing prospective invoices and monthly fee totals that feel impossible to tackle. After considering the cost of medications, incontinence supplies, time required to transport someone to appointments, hiring help at home, or moving to an assisted living facility – it’s common for caregivers or family members to feel overwhelmed.  Many wonder how they will provide quality care for their loved with limited time and resources.  We recommend taking a big, deep breath… Luckily, there are many creative... Read More »

Caring for someone with Alzheimer’s or other form of dementia comes with unique challenges.  But when the weather turns cold there are even more factors to consider.    Everything from minimizing fall risks in parking lots to preventing confusion and fear during a winter storm are factors to consider. These cold weather tips can help you get prepared to keep your loved one safe and comfortable. Preventing Winter Falls During the winter, ice is often an issue and can be very dangerous. Even the smallest amount of ice lead to a fall – especially for those who may not be... Read More »

The holiday season is when most families get together, which often involves travel. Traveling can be hectic and stressful on its own, and traveling with a family member or loved who has dementia can add to the stress, but planning ahead can go a long way to making the trip safer and more enjoyable. Travel at the Optimal Time of Day If you are caring for someone with memory loss you have probably noticed certain times of day when they are more apt to participate in activities or just seem happier – usually in the morning.  As the day progresses... Read More »

Thanksgiving is supposed to be a happy time when families gather, eat and just enjoy just being together. But in reality it is often very stressful and tensions can run high. From grocery shopping, traveling, cleaning the house, prepping meals and trying to make everything perfect – taking the time to enjoy the day is sometimes forgotten.  And if you have an parent or loved one with dementia Thanksgiving can be even more stressful. You worry about what to say if they can’t remember everyone’s name or become agitated for what seems like no reason.  So how do you handle... Read More »

Lewy body dementia, LBD, might not be a term you are familiar with, yet LBD impacts up to 1.4 million individuals and their families in the US and is second leading cause degenerative dementia (Alzheimer’s is leading cause). Knowing the most common symptoms of Lewy body dementia is critical to early detection and conversations with your medical provider.  Because symptoms are often similar to diseases such as Parkinson’s, LBD may go undiagnosed or properly treated for some time. Common Lewy Body Dementia Symptoms Include:   Impaired thinking, such as loss of executive function (planning, processing information), memory, or the ability... Read More »

What is Memory Care? Memory care refers to long-term skilled care specifically for individuals living with Alzheimer’s or other forms of dementia who can’t live on their own any longer. Memory care provides around the clock supervised care including meals, appropriate activities, bathing and routine medical care.  Its should not ever mean that someone living with memory loss sits alone in a chair all day watching television, doesn’t have the opportunity to participate in activities, can’t benefit from social interaction or doesn’t deserve to be  treated like the person they are. A quality memory care community recognizes residents as true... Read More »

The Memory Centers in Richmond and Virginia Beach consider all our residents a part of our family.  Getting to know them, care for them, see them smile and make friends in our community is a privilege. Recently, two Memory Center families documented their experience with The Memory Center.  See their stories below and how their loved ones are Living Well with Alzheimer’s and Dementia. Learn more about The Memory Center and our programs designed specifically to support those living with memory loss?  Read about our philosophy or ask a question. Read More »

Having a loved one or spouse with dementia comes with many challenges, hard conversations and decisions.  Including a very common but extremely difficult one, is it time to take away the car keys? People in the early stages of dementia or Alzheimer’s may be able to drive safely for a time.  But as the disease progresses driving will become increasingly unsafe and they risk harming themselves and others. Even with this common knowledge, what makes this topic so hard to discuss and accept when the time comes time to stop driving? Driving Means Freedom For many people driving means freedom... Read More »

More than 5 million Americans are living with Alzheimer’s and other forms of dementia – but it isn’t just Americans who suffer from memory loss.  Around the globe this impact of Alzheimer’s and dementia is increasing at a staggering rate and the need for quality care is a real issue – especially given the expected increase in the number of patients needing care. What can you do to help? Know the early warning signs of Alzheimer’s and dementia and pay attention to behavior changes in older family members or spouses.  And don’t be afraid to talk to a medical professional... Read More »

When you think of someone living with Alzheimer’s or dementia do you picture them looking a certain way? Perhaps you think of an older person who is confused, repeating the same questions over and over or wearing mis-matched clothes.  While someone with Alzheimer’s may exhibit these behaviors at some point, the disease affects people in different ways, and it can strike people in their 50’s or even earlier.  Assuming everyone living in cognitive decline will look or act a certain way simply isn’t true and can perpetuate stigma and fear often surrounding Alzheimer’s. Learning more about the disease and how... Read More »

Research indicates you can reduce your risk cognitive decline, such as Alzheimer’s, by adopting key lifestyle habits and keeping your brain active. According to the Alzheimer’s Association “Mental decline as you age appears to be largely due to altered connections among brain cells. But research has found that keeping the brain active seems to increase its vitality and may build its reserves of brain cells and connections. You could even generate new brain cells.” Activities that keep your brain sharp including everything from crossword puzzles, reading and knitting. Or combine a mental activity with an activity that gets you moving,... Read More »

June is Alzheimer’s & Brain Awareness month to support those living with memory loss, recognize their caregivers, raise awareness and funds for research to end Alzheimer’s. According to the Alzheimer’s Association, over 47 million people worldwide are living with dementia. In Virginia Alzheimer’s cases are expected to increase 35.7 percent from 140,000 in 2010 to about 190,000 in 2025. Everyone at the The Memory Centers in Virginia Beach and Richmond encourage you to learning the facts about Alzheimer’s, know how to decrease your risk and take action to help spread the word. Throughout the month of June it is even... Read More »

Caring for someone living with Alzheimer’s or dementia is challenging.  Every day is different and presents new situations that can leave caregivers wondering how to handle a social situation, the best way to bathe someone with dementia or what to do when they refuse to take their medication.  As the disease progresses so does the level of care needed can lead to more questions. To help caregivers and family members, the Alzheimer’s Association offers a number of resources including message boards where you can connect with others or ask questions, and many educational courses that are available 24 hours a... Read More »

Each year the Alzheimer’s Association releases key facts and statistics about Alzheimer’s and other forms of dementia.  It is now reported that Alzheimer’s is the 6th leading cause of death, killing more people than breast and prostate cancer combined. More than 5 million Americans are living with Alzheimer’s and it is estimated someone develops the disease every 66 seconds. While there is no cure for the disease there are lifestyle habits you can adopt to help reduce your risk.  It is also important to know the early warning signs of Alzheimer’s, for yourself and your loved ones.  If you suspect... Read More »

  According to the Alzheimer’s Association, in the United States someone develops Alzheimer’s disease every 67 seconds and 1 in 3 seniors will die with Alzheimer’s or other form of dementia.  As we age, forgetful moments will happen, and they don’t always mean someone is developing Alzheimer’s.  But it is important to recognize the early signs Alzheimer’s in a loved one or family member so you can talk to your doctor and begin early interventions if necessary. Common Signs of Alzheimer’s Memory Loss – The most common common sign of Alzheimer’s is memory loss, especially recently learned information.  You may... Read More »

Vascular dementia and Alzheimer’s both affect the brain but in different ways. Vascular dementia is a decline in judgment and thinking skills caused when blood flow to the brain is blocked or reduced.  This deprives brain cells of oxygen and the nutrients it needs to function properly. Considered the second most common cause of dementia behind Alzheimer’s disease, the two have similar symptoms, especially in the early stages, but have different causes. Alzheimer’s disease attacks the nerve cells in the brain, eventually leading to cell death. Vascular dementia occurs when the brain doesn’t get the nutrients it needs. Causes of... Read More »

You already know Alzheimer’s and dementia affects memory.  As the disease progresses even simple tasks, like dressing and showering, become more difficult for the person to complete on their own.  It may begin with the inability to button a shirt and eventually lead to the person forgetting to change clothes all together or not remembering how to use a hairbrush. Over time dressing and bathing become the responsibility of the caregiver. Caring for someone in cognitive decline is never easy.  Add dressing and bathing to the list and many caregivers find it too much to handle. Just as Alzheimer’s affects... Read More »

Research shows music can provide emotional and behavioral benefits for people living with Alzheimer’s disease and other forms of dementia. Listening to music, playing an instrument, clapping or singing can reduce agitation and trigger past memories and is an excellent way for caregivers or family members to connect with their loved one. The Alzheimer’s Association offers these five tips to incorporating music into your activities. At The Memory Centers in Richmond and Virginia Beach, our activities program is grounded in the Montessori-based principles of respect, dignity, independence and choice. All activities are designed with three A’s in mind to ensure... Read More »

In older adults dementia and depression often have common symptoms which can make it difficult to identify the differences.  And depression is a common in people who have dementia and early stages of Alzheimer’s. Learning to recognize the signs of each is important for caregivers and medical professionals in order to minimize the risk misdiagnosis. This can lead to someone getting the wrong treatment, or not getting treatment at all. Common Signs of Depression In Older Adults While depression affects people in many different ways, the common signs of depression in older adults include: spending most of the time in... Read More »

The holiday season is supposed to be a happy time when we get together with family and friends, but can end up being very stressful.  From buying presents, cleaning the house, prepping meals and making sure everything is just right – often we don’t have time left to take a deep breath and enjoy it all.  And if you have an elderly parent or loved one with dementia the holidays can be even more stressful. You worry about what to say if they can’t remember other family members or become agitated for what seems like no reason.  So how do... Read More »

Are you an adult child or family member noticing changes in a parent and wondering if it could be Alzheimer’s or dementia?  How do you know what is a normal part of aging vs. a bigger problem, and how do you bring it up without upsetting them? Keep A Behavior Log Memory loss is a common symptom people first notice, but there are other early warning signs that could indicate a problem. Withdrawing from social activities, becoming financially irresponsible, changes in mood, or frequently misplacing items and becoming easily agitated for example. Keep a log of anything strange or new... Read More »

While Alzheimer’s is typically noted in people 65 and older, it is possible to see symptoms in people 50 or even younger. This is referred to as early onset, and it is estimated approximately 200,000 in the U.S have early onset Alzheimer’s. Who Gets Early Onset Alzheimer’s? While Alzheimer’s is still being studied, many scientists believe early onset often runs in families and may be due to rare genes that get passed from generation to generation.  People who inherit these rare genes tend to develop symptoms in their 50s and even as young as 35. When two or more people... Read More »

Considering assisted living or memory care for a loved one is often a very difficult decision, and finding the right facility is important.  Not only for your loved one’s health and well being, but for your own peace of mind. When you tour facilities of course you will notice details like how clean it is, if it is well lit and in good condition.  But to get the most out of your tour The Memory Center has some tips on other items to look for and questions to ask. Staff to Resident Ratios This is an important question to ask,... Read More »

Everyone has days where they can’t remember where they put their car keys or open the refrigerator and don’t remember what it was they were looking for.  As we age this can seem to happen more frequently.  You may even wonder if your forgetfulness is a sign of something more, like dementia or Alzheimer’s. What Is Dementia? Dementia is a general term referring to a decline in mental ability including memory loss. However with dementia the decline is severe enough to interfere with daily life. Alzheimer’s disease is the most common form of dementia, the second being vascular dementia which... Read More »

Most people know Alzheimer’s disease affects the brain, but don’t really know how. If you are caring for someone with Alzheimer’s it is helpful to understand how the disease affects the brain and the common stages and progression. To help educate caregivers, family members and raise awareness, the Alzheimer’s Association developed an interactive Brain Tour that begins by showing the makeup of the human brain, the 3 main parts and explaining their function.  The tour then guides you through the different ways Alzheimer’s disease impacts the brain including how Alzheimer’s looks under a microscope. Alzheimer’s disease leads to nerve cell... Read More »

Caring for someone with Alzheimer’s or other forms of dementia is challenging.  If you are caring for a spouse or close family member it can be even more challenging as you’re also dealing with the emotion of seeing a loved one in a state of decline. There are some practical tips caregivers can take to help manage stress. Reduce Alzheimer’s Frustration & Agitation Agitation is common in people living with Alzheimer’s and dementia.  Agitation can be caused by boredom, new situations, fear stemming from trying to make sense of a world they don’t understand, or basic needs like hunger. Caregivers... Read More »

Sundowning is a symptom of Alzheimer’s disease and other forms of dementia that usually occurs in the late afternoon or evening, or as the sun goes down. Behaviors such as confusion, anxiety, aggression or wandering are typical during sundowning and can last until bedtime or prevent the person from getting to sleep. The exact cause of sundowning isn’t known, but is thought to be related to changes in the body’s circadian rhythms. Environmental factors such as frustration, stress or too much activity can also trigger sundowning.  For example someone with Alzheimer’s can pick up on cues from their caregiver who... Read More »

People suffering from Alzheimer’s and dementia are prone to wandering, which can be extremely dangerous for the person and very worrisome for caregivers. There are different reasons for wandering including boredom, fear, searching for something or trying to find a place from their past such as work or a childhood home. Regardless of the reason someone wanders, caregivers should learn to identify the signs of wandering and know how to keep their loved one safe. Warning Signs of Alzheimer’s Wandering While not all wandering can be prevented, picking up on cues can often stop wandering before it starts.  Watch for... Read More »

Trying to downsize your home, or an older loved one’s home, for a move to assisted living isn’t easy.  Figuring out how to start can be tough. Especially if they have lived in their home for many years.  Deciding what to keep vs. selling or donating can be emotionally challenging for many people.  Then moving day and the first few weeks after the transition can be just as hard. The Memory Center guide to downsizing features best practices for making the process easier.  You will find tips on everything from how to get started, choosing a realtor who understands the... Read More »

The Memory Center Virginia Beach, a MemCare community, has been selected as a Caring Star of 2015 for Service Excellence in Assisted Living Memory Care. The designation is part of a nationwide program honoring service excellence based on consumer ratings and reviews posted on Caring.com. In reviews from families, seniors, and others concerned about assisted living, Alzheimer’s and memory care, The Memory Center captured a 5-star consumer rating, the highest possible score, while also meeting other criteria to qualify for the honor. Families across the country are increasingly seeking insights provided by online reviews to help guide important senior care... Read More »

If you are an adult child starting to explore living options for an elderly parent we know you want to find best care possible and probably have a lot of questions like what is the the difference between an assisted living memory care community and a nursing home? Many families assume assisted living memory care is simply a more modern version of a nursing home.  But there is more to it than that. They really are very different options for senior care, especially if considering care for someone with memory loss.  Some differences include: An assisted living memory care community... Read More »